“Oh look! I forgot I had that! I just bought a new shirt just like it.”
“Look what I found in my closet, and it still has the tags on it!”
“So, that’s where that skirt went!”
Fess up! You know you have made at least one of these statements sometime in your life. It’s okay. Happens to us all. It’s called wardrobe amnesia.
This weekend I found a blue polka dot dress in a suitcase I had bought (and worn) many, MANY times in London. I pulled it out, and holding it my hands, I blinked a few times and thought “how on EARTH did I forget about this?!”
So now, I’m here to tackle my problem head on. And in the spirit of helping others who suffer from the same, I’ve put together a ten step guide to combating wardrobe amnesia (and save you money!) and learning to shop your closet.
1. Admitting you have wardrobe amnesia is the first step. Say it out loud, tell a friend, tweet it. However you feel it best to share. But get it out. Once you acknowledge this, you can quickly move on to resolve the issue.
2. You are NOT alone. Thousands of women (and I suspect men) suffer with the same problem. No need to be ashamed.
3. Tackle the problem the best way possible: music and wine. Seriously, turn up some tunes (or if the kids are sleeping have a silent disco with headphones) and swing open your closet doors.
4. Rummage! Take a deep breath and begin sorting. Have a good look, really get in there! Try things on again and just get re-acquainted with what you own. Work it, work it!
5. Take Inventory. Make piles for your jeans, another for your sweaters, tops, blouses, jackets, blazers, shoes, accessories, bags etc. Get it ALL out!
6. Make style assessments. From the piles, you will quickly see what can be given to charity and what you can still wear. I GUARANTEE you will find something you forgot you owned and that you can still rock.
7. Put together new looks. Grab one item from each pile and create a new outfit. Often times pieces I would never think to wear together have come to life when tackling my wardrobe amnesia in this way.
8. Quick snaps with your smart phone will help jog your memory. Make an album of what you have found before putting back in the closet, especially out of season items (for instance, winter items now) on your phone and label “In my closet”. You can quickly refer to it when you feel your style memory fading away.
9. Wear your “new” clothes throughout the next few weeks – really make an effort to wear your new outfits every day. Not only will you have a sense of pride, but you will have that “I just went shopping” feeling that we love so much.
10. Repeat. While you may be feeling super confident and happy with your new found threads, the reality is wardrobe amnesia is for life. You will relapse. However, by following these steps every few months or at the beginning of every season, you will be able to lead a comfortable, stylish and budget friendly life.
How do you deal with wardrobe amnesia? I’d love to hear what you are doing to get through it.
Together we CAN overcome this!